Let me just start this off, saying that I know what I do is wrong. But I am a strong believer that there should be nothing in my girlfriend's messages that I shouldn't be allowed to see. If she wanted to see my messages, I would let her see them in a second. I have nothing to hide from her. But when she hides messages from me, it just makes me jealous and irrational. Props to her if she is doing the same thing and breaking into my messages. It takes a lot of dedication to be a Jealous Girlfriend.
Anyway.
Where was i? Oh right..... the worst ex of all. I'll call him R Let me just give you the back story on Bobby.
When I first met my girlfriend, she was "in love" with R. Or so she told me all the time. My opinion of the situation was that he was completely playing her. He was using her for sex and never really cared about her or wanted a relationship... but he constantly strung her along and kept her around for "just in case". He treated her like dirt. And then she finally started letting him go, and that's what she and I became more than friends. She forgot about him for a while, and actually became friends with him... as did I. Everything seemed like it was just platonic. The three of us got along well, and that was that. We were distant friends...and actually lost touched for a while. However, I went away on vacation last week and she texted me while I was on vacation that R had texted her, pretty much giving her a booty call. She told me that she told him no, and that it would take her a while to forgive him. I was really happy that she had turned him down so easily. It seemed a little too easily.... so of course I checked her facebook messages, just in case that wasn't the end of it. And i immediately found messages between them where she said she forgave him for what he said, and that she was really just shocked that he would ask her that. The messages ended with them chitchatting. I noticed another message in the inbox, one with my girlfriend and one of her good guy friends. In this message she told her friend that she had been wondering what things would be like if everything had worked out with R. Her friend told her to not even think like that and not to mess things up with me. But she seemed like she wasn't sure she wanted to just drop the idea.
Now I'm a complete wreck. My jealousy has gone wild. She is actually wondering what things would be like with that scumbag? My snooping is going into full effect. I will get to the bottom of this. If anything happens between them, I WILL know.
Thursday, July 4, 2013
Wednesday, July 3, 2013
And that's how it all began...
Being a girlfriend is hard work, especially when you're a jealous one. Throughout my experience in the dating world, I have realized that jealous is my personality in relationships. I have created this blog to share my Jealous Girlfriend antics and experiences. I am choosing to remain anonymous, because although I am a jealous girlfriend, I also am very committed and happy in my current relationship.
I wasn't always this way. But when I fell in love for the first time, everything changed. She was my soul mate, but I was having difficulty dealing with her past relationships. Knowing that what is mine had been someone else's at one point burns me. I don't like to think that anyone ever touched the person I'm in love with, but that is not the reality.
It all started when I noticed some of my girlfriend's exes messaging her on Facebook and snapchatting her. I casually asked her about it, but didn't get much of a response. It drove me insane that there was no way to see the snapchats after they were opened for the first time. It was making me crazy. I knew that the only way I'd feel better was to read the Facebook messages. The only problem was- I didn't know her Facebook password.
Now listen closely, fellow jealous girlfriends- I am about to reveal my best secret of snooping. If you also don't know your significant other's password, there is a simple solution. This only works if they use Google Chrome, which my girlfriend does. The next time they leave their laptop with you, you will have your opportunity. You are out of luck if they lock their laptop with a password and you don't know it, unless you are clever. What I did was just ask if I could use her laptop to check my Facebook because mine was dead. Easy at 1, 2, 3. She logged me on, and I was free to use the internet. Turning the screen away from her, while she played on her phone, I went straight to Google Chrome, settings. Scroll all the way to the bottom and click advanced settings. Then you will see something that says Passwords and forms. Under that, there will be "Manage saved passwords" Jackpot. Now all you have to do is click on the password you want to see, and choose show. And bam. There is your password. Either memorize the email and password or open your facebook and message them to yourself.
Not that I condone that kind of behavior... ;)
Anyway... once she was away at work, I used my iphone to log into her Facebook. I have found that this is a better way to do it, because if you use a laptop to do it, and she is also online on her laptop, it will kick her off of her facebook, raising suspicions. I logged on and found a few messages to and from her ex boyfriend, but thankfully, was completely innocent. This was a few weeks ago.
But now things have changed. Another ex-lover of her's has been texting her some sexual things (which she actually told me about when it happened) and I noticed that she had been messaging him on Facebook recently as well....
To be continued.........
I wasn't always this way. But when I fell in love for the first time, everything changed. She was my soul mate, but I was having difficulty dealing with her past relationships. Knowing that what is mine had been someone else's at one point burns me. I don't like to think that anyone ever touched the person I'm in love with, but that is not the reality.
It all started when I noticed some of my girlfriend's exes messaging her on Facebook and snapchatting her. I casually asked her about it, but didn't get much of a response. It drove me insane that there was no way to see the snapchats after they were opened for the first time. It was making me crazy. I knew that the only way I'd feel better was to read the Facebook messages. The only problem was- I didn't know her Facebook password.
Now listen closely, fellow jealous girlfriends- I am about to reveal my best secret of snooping. If you also don't know your significant other's password, there is a simple solution. This only works if they use Google Chrome, which my girlfriend does. The next time they leave their laptop with you, you will have your opportunity. You are out of luck if they lock their laptop with a password and you don't know it, unless you are clever. What I did was just ask if I could use her laptop to check my Facebook because mine was dead. Easy at 1, 2, 3. She logged me on, and I was free to use the internet. Turning the screen away from her, while she played on her phone, I went straight to Google Chrome, settings. Scroll all the way to the bottom and click advanced settings. Then you will see something that says Passwords and forms. Under that, there will be "Manage saved passwords" Jackpot. Now all you have to do is click on the password you want to see, and choose show. And bam. There is your password. Either memorize the email and password or open your facebook and message them to yourself.
Not that I condone that kind of behavior... ;)
Anyway... once she was away at work, I used my iphone to log into her Facebook. I have found that this is a better way to do it, because if you use a laptop to do it, and she is also online on her laptop, it will kick her off of her facebook, raising suspicions. I logged on and found a few messages to and from her ex boyfriend, but thankfully, was completely innocent. This was a few weeks ago.
But now things have changed. Another ex-lover of her's has been texting her some sexual things (which she actually told me about when it happened) and I noticed that she had been messaging him on Facebook recently as well....
To be continued.........
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